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What are the components of a good date?

Shena said her good-byes and turned to leave. Michael pulling her by the belt demanded, Where are you going? Irritated, she replied, "I told you already, "Aquafire!"

"No you're not!" Michael insisted.

"Don't do that!" Said Shena to Michael. For Shena the date was falling of the rails pretty quickly. This definitely was not the guy she had met two weeks prior. What changed? Or was he showing off for his coworkers who was also present on the date. Shena had no answers! All she knew was it was time to go!

What would have made this date better? Are there basic components of a good date? The characteristics of a good can be vast but today I will review ease of communication, generosity, personality and physical attraction.

To me, good conversation is like playing a team sport. It is just isn't fun if I'm the only one on the team doing all the talking. The return of viewpoints, compliments, questions and smiles to makes the game or the night an adventure . These aspects also act as lubricants in the engine of communication. Does the conversation flow? Or is one person constantly offended by the way something is said. When both parties are together is there awkward silence due to the fact that there isn't common ground or is there synergy?

A date is a Moment to determine synchronicity.

Generally speaking if a man invited you on a date, and brings his own container of alcohol to the venue or he orders six wings but invites his boys to enjoy one of the six, these are all red flags that he is not in a place in his life where he can handle the demands of a taking a grown ass woman out on a date. He is a bad date!

What about your body language? Is your date touching your intimate parts after just 15 mins with you? While it is important to communicate attraction, it is also important to remember- time, place and pacing.

While you want to show sexual attraction, never do you want the woman you are with to feel disrespected or that she is just another woman you're with.

A first date is more or less a concentrated moment we take to determine our degree of synchronicity. So pay attention to energy. On the date with Michael, I felt overpowered, ignored and criticized. I needed a man who could take charge but one who also made me feel safe.

Your appearance is your date's initial introduction to you. It speaks for you even before you speak! So please put your best foot forward. Wrinkled clothing, wearing white dirty flip flops or coming to the date sweaty is a turn off! In my view attraction that is organic and unhinged to status is preferred. Although I dating in my perspectives since the early 2000's has changed tremendously.

Women today seem to want all their bills paid after just a month of meeting the poor guy while men insist of sex after just one night of drinks. I say sabotage! With everyone feeling that they must get something out of the dating deal, there is no wonder finding a quality relationship is so hard today. https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk › article › women-...
 

For this reason, so many women I've met say they can't remember the last time they have actually been on a nice date. www.academiamasters.org

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August 1, 2022